Players I respect might be different to others.
Wins? No. I don't really count wins in the formula of players I respect.
I respect players who know their game. Players who I can tell, continually learn and teach themselves, ands learn from their mistakes. You have to watch players a lot to see this, but I do.
I respect an analyser. Someone who appears to work through a hand from start to finish, even when it's almost completed.
I respect the helpers. The people who don't think they are above the game, but rather a part of it - and help in many ways, with new players, with rules (without appearing over the top) and who add to the social atmosphere.
Then, maybe, final tables

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