Postby BigPete33 » Mon Aug 10, 2009 4:56 pm
Nobody said anything about bombarding anyone with anything.
I think you're reading more into it than was mentioned benny the cunt.
If you are going to bother to mention it (which I think is great) then there's absolutely no reason to also let it stand. I'm sure you think you're just being nice to the new person, but you may have also inadvertently shafted another player at the table who was hoping to get in cheaply and therefore pissed them off. It's better to just follow the rule and then there can be no arguments about what was the right thing to do.
Bob mentioned what I forgot to say - explaining to them that's it's ALWAYS easier for them to just say it first is something that I do as well. More often than not the player will go 'oh ok thanks, had no idea, can see what you mean' and they'll know a) not to do it again and b) that other players do have the expectation of the rules being followed and c) that there's more experienced players who are willing to help with things like that and d) they can then pass that on if they see someone else doing it which helps everyone else to learn.
I'm sure we've all sat at the same table as another player who has been playing for some time now and when it's been pointed out that "no, they can't raise that bet of 500 by another 50" (or other such examples) they then claim they've always done that and it's always been fine and nobody has ever said anything.
There's probably several factors as to why that was allowed to continue, but I guarantee one of them is because nobody could be arsed explaining why not along with not letting it stand.
I don't find it at all unreasonable to politely pull them up on it the first time yet be firm with the decision.
Pardon me, but I think you'll find that's a shovel. See you next Tuesday!